10 Tips for Traveling Solo with Kids
Are you taking on the daunting task of traveling solo this summer with kids? While it’s not as easy as traveling with a partner, traveling independently definitely has its benefits. It is one less opinion to consider, one less suitcase to cram in, and one less person in charge. It’s just you, your rugrat(s), and the open road. You’ll likely end the trip feeling like a highly accomplished wonder woman, marveling at your own prowess. Below are ten tips to get your trip started.
Pack snacks and a refillable water bottle for each child traveling.
Bring a special toy or blankie - but make sure it’s replaceable. There’s nothing worse than losing the favorite stuffie and suddenly it’s fun-trip-turned-nightmare. Something compact is helpful, and have your kids sleep with it at home to give it that homely feeling.
Bring your routine on the road. Does your child have a special night light? Do you play the calm app at night? It can help to keep the routine as similar as possible.
Pack as light as possible. Your children’s toys and blankie should fit into their backpacks, so they can carry it themselves. The water bottle can go in the side pocket. If you need extra space, you could consider a stylish fanny pack. (Yes, they’re cool again.)
Bring several activities that are not a device. I like to bring one book, a new audiobook downloaded (remember headphones!), an activity book, and some kind of game that others can participate in.
Read the room. Take breaks before everyone is at breaking point. You know what I’m talking about. Stop the car and run in a meadow, smell the air, or if you’re traveling in a big city, stop at a cafe to have a rest.
Let everyone take turns. To minimize arguing, try letting everyone take turns. Whether it is choosing the song, breakfast spot, or daily activity, taking turns is fair.
Take zen moments along the way. When everyone gets tired/anxious/fed up, it’s the perfect time to get regulated. I give prizes for who does the longest “om,” and we compete. Great to regulate the nervous system, and lots of fun!
Don’t worry if things go pear shaped. Call your support team and have a whine, or a literal glass of wine, and then fix things up and move on.
Take care of yourself. When you’re traveling solo with children, they seem to have a million and one needs, all of which fall on you. Be mindful of how much you can realistically accomplish on your own, and let the rest go. You need to take care of your own health. You have needs, too, and you need to meet at least some of them.
